Things sisters have to do get a husband from a man's perspective
You can get it right. Here comes the relationship guide for sisters:
Never look for a man, let him look for you. Queens never chase, they are Chosen. Esther, the Queen was chosen by the King, over thousands of women. Be classy and live in a certain sophicated realm that make you different. If you look for a man, you will find one. He will be a man but not the one for you. Let the man find you.
Position yourself strategically in the right place. Get yourself together. Get ready for your future. Ask God to take away from you past relationships scars, old baggage, pain memories, the spirit of recalling events of the past, the fear of commitment, the fear of being hurt and broken again, and wrong hidden attitudes. Never be nasty but always be classy. If you want a man that loves you with the love of God, you need to first love God. Become completely and totally stable in your relationship with God and with others. Don't be unstable in your emotions. Be consistent!! If you can't or won't submit to the authority of God, you will not submit to the authority of a husband.
When you date, do not date just for the sake of just dating. Stop dating just anybody trying to find somebody. Don't date just to date because you are lonely but date on purpose. Date with a mission in mind. Start dating one person at a time, when you know you are ready. If we are going to be kingdom men and women, then we don't jump from bed to bed, with no knowledge in your head. Be kingdom minded and keep it moving but don't be to quick to settle.
Do not try to make a relationship work by your self. It takes two people to develop a strong and lasting relationship. It takes work. Real godly relationships take work and warfare will always come after something that is of God because Satan, came after the relationship that Adam and Eve had with God and with each other. There are no perfect relationships, at the beginning it seems that way, but as the relationship progress, you will need God to be the super glue to hold it together. Never beg a man or a woman to give you something that should come natural.
A relationship will take many sacrifices, it both people are not willing to make them willing, then love is not on a two-way street. To have a whole relationship, it will require that you become a whole man and she is a whole woman. Spiritual development is a must but sometimes you have to come down from being so super spiritual and handle natural things. Never beg man to love you or your children, you all are a package deal. You can't love me without loving my children. Do not try to lead a man where he does not want to go. He will attend church or go to the Lord's House but still never know, the Lord of the House. You cannot make a man have a relationship with God. Never use your sexual powers to get a man or to keep him. Let him go, if he wants to go because he will be somebody else's nightmare in the end. You can't fix a broken boy and make him into a man, that is going to love you. Do not open your mouth to always lead the relationship, let the King lead because he should know what he wants and he should never feel like he is being pushed into anything that he doesn't want to do.
Pray for your future husband. The best thing a woman can do, is pray for the man that she may be interested in. Impress him not by your outward beauty only but with your inner beauty, spirit, gentleness, and good heart. Always remember, outward beauty fades away but a woman with a beautiful spirit will always last. Always conduct your self like a Leading Lady. Have some class about yourself and know your own worth. Pray for the man even before you meet him. Pray for his ability to walk right before God, so he can lead you in the right way. Take him to God because God knows who he is, even when you don't!!!
Prepare yourself for your future mate.
How can a single woman or man be considered a wife or a husband or wife material?? It is because she first is married to the Lord and while she is being single, The Holy Spirit is teaching her, how to be a wife. If you don't know how to get alone with being by yourself, then you will not know how to get alone with others. A man is looking for a wife, not another girlfriend or a side chick but a godly wife. A Sanctified Woman!! Clean and wholesome. One who has character and morals. Marriage is bigger than a beautiful engagement ring, a nice wedding dress, food, dancing, and celebrating; marriage is about two souls being made into One.
Marriage is about compromise and it's not all about you. Don't be a selfish woman! You want a husband, but you don't know how to keep a house clean. Only a dirty man wants a dirty woman. When you are in the single status, learn how to clean up a house, wash clothes, cook and prepare good meals, buy groceries and stay out of the streets. Learn that your personal business needs to stay in your house. Don't be foolish telling everyone what goes on in your own house. Stop needing other people's opinions and learn to cleave and honor your future mate and stop listening to your girlfriends who don't have a man or is having more relationship troubles than you .
How can a single woman or man be considered a wife or a husband or wife material?? It is because she first is married to the Lord and while she is being single, The Holy Spirit is teaching her, how to be a wife. If you don't know how to get alone with being by yourself, then you will not know how to get alone with others. A man is looking for a wife, not another girlfriend or a side chick but a godly wife. A Sanctified Woman!! Clean and wholesome. One who has character and morals. Marriage is bigger than a beautiful engagement ring, a nice wedding dress, food, dancing, and celebrating; marriage is about two souls being made into One.
Marriage is about compromise and it's not all about you. Don't be a selfish woman! You want a husband, but you don't know how to keep a house clean. Only a dirty man wants a dirty woman. When you are in the single status, learn how to clean up a house, wash clothes, cook and prepare good meals, buy groceries and stay out of the streets. Learn that your personal business needs to stay in your house. Don't be foolish telling everyone what goes on in your own house. Stop needing other people's opinions and learn to cleave and honor your future mate and stop listening to your girlfriends who don't have a man or is having more relationship troubles than you .
