WE HAVE TWO THINGS LEFT TO DO IN MARRIAGE' : '
The Lady: 'I have been dating this guy for more than 4 years now. There is nothing couples are doing in marriage we have not done. We have lived together, ate together, lost count on the number of time we have had sex together. I have done 3 abortions for him. We have business ventures together, we do have our bath together. There is nothing couples are doing that we are not doing sir'.
Me: So what do you both have left that you want to do in marriage if you do your wedding today?
The Lady: ' Sir, just 2 things left.
Me: Tell me those two things.
The Lady: To have children and to fight.
Me: Fight as how?
The Lady: We have never fought before. I do bottle up my anger because I have lost so much in the relationship, if I leave him, I will be at the loosing end. But when we get married , he will know he married a lion. I am battle ready for him.
That conversation up ������ there is not a friction. It took place.
What many single guys and ladies don't know is that, there is a whole lot of difference between single relationship and marriage. Some of you don't have anything tangible you are going to do in marriage than to have children. All the privileges, uniqueness, sacredness, sanctity , enjoyments of marriage, you are already exploring and enjoying it now in your dating adventure. Lady, you have turned yourself to 'iyawo ile' in the 'face me face you' apartment of that guy. You are his cook, his mom, his bed mate, sex mate, you have moved your loads to his room one by one. You are all over him, showing desperation.
Dear guy, what exactly are you looking forward to in marriage? You are behaving to that lady as if you are her husband. You are tired of her nakedness already. Nothing is exciting you about her again. 'see finish' is happening between the two of you. If you marry today, what's going to be a new thing to do as couples? Kissing is not new to the two of you. Your nakedness is no more new to each other. Lady, nothing is trilling about your breasts again. You are not yet married, but your breasts has suffer in the hands of this boy. Yet to breastfeed oo, yes, your breasts is already looking like that of a grandma. What is new I asked you? What sex position or style have you not done together?
May be like this lady in that conversation, the only two things left for many singles in relationship today is to have children and fight. Some of you will see wrong thing that guy/lady is doing that you don't like, you will keep quiet and bottle your anger. You won't fight and sought it out now, you are waiting to get into marriage and then start fighting. You have enjoyed all the 'peace ' of marriage in dating, only to get into marriage and start war.
Hear me well dear singles, don't cross some lines. You are not married until you are married!
Reserve romance, sex, physical intimacy, joint account, bathing together, wearing the same clothes, and many other things for marriage. There should be some exciting things you are looking forward to do together as couples. Don't do everything you should do in marriage in your dating/ courtship.
Have self control. Right thing done at a wrong time will make it a wrong thing!
Thanks for reading. You can share to bless a single guy/lady around you. Share, don't plagiarize it.
WISE WORDS*
```In life, some may walk, others may run, but remember the Lord gave the tortoise and the horse the same days to reach Noah's ark. Your journey might be rough and tough but you will definitely get to your destination.
Jacob looked at Joseph and saw a good son! The ten brothers looked at Joseph and saw a useless dreamer! The travellers looked at Joseph and saw a slave!! Potiphar looked at Joseph and saw a fine servant!! Potiphar's wife looked at Joseph and saw a potential boyfriend! The prison officers saw in Joseph a prisoner! How wrong were all of them! God looked at Joseph and saw a Prime Minister of Egypt in waiting!! Don't be discouraged by what people see in you!! Be encouraged by what God sees in you!! Never underrate the person next to you because you never know what the Lord has deposited in that person. Your maid may be a Chief Executive Officer in waiting for a company which shall employ your child. Your garden-boy may be a president in waiting. (Remember David got the anointing of becoming a King while he was a simple child herding sheep. Esther was a simple orphaned girl yet she was a Queen in waiting). Let's share God's love and make the world a better place to live. Show that love by sharing this message with those you love.
IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW PEOPLE SEE YOU, IT MATTERS HOW GOD SEES YOU
God is God:
��He doesn't care about *age*, no wonder he blessed Abraham.
��He doesn't care about *experience*, no wonder he chose David.
��He doesn't care about *gender,* no wonder he lifted Esther.
��He doesn't care about *your past*, no wonder he called Paul.
��He doesn't care about *your physical appearance*, no wonder he chose Zacchaeus
(the shortest one).
��He doesn't care about *fluency in speech* , no wonder he chose Moses.
��He doesn't care about *your career*, no wonder he choose Mary Magdalene; a prostitute.
All I know is that my God never changes
��He never made *a promise he wouldn't keep*����
He never saw *a person he wouldn't help*����
��He never heard *a prayer he wouldn't answer*����
��He never found *a soul he wouldn't love*����
��He never found *a sinner he wouldn't forgive*����
This is the kind of God I would like to commune with every day the moment I wake up. I strongly recommend Him to you.```
Beware of the Leaking Bucket
1. You make people believe you are righteous but secretly you are devil's agent. *(A leaking bucket).*
2. You pray all the time but you have no strong faith at all. *(A leaking bucket).*
3. You're very kind to people and speak with them gently but with your family you're always harsh. *(A leaking bucket).*
4.. You honour and treat your guests well but when they leave, you gossip about them and talk about their flaws. *(A leaking bucket).*
5. You give a lot of charity to the poor but you humiliate them and hurt them. *(A leaking bucket).*
6. You stand up to pray at night, fast and read The Holy Book everyday but you cut your family ties. *(A leaking bucket).*
7. You joke with friends openly but behind them you swear, insult, curse and blackmail them. *(A leaking bucket).*
8. You help others but you're doing it to gain something from them and not doing those acts of kindness for the sake of Almighty God's Glory. *(A leaking bucket).*
9. You post reminders and have thousands of followers on facebook, twitter and instagram but you're doing it for the fame, not to spread the gospel. *(A leaking bucket).*
10. You read this beautiful post and you gain from it but deliberately refuse to change your ways. *(A leaking bucket).*
May God Almighty have mercy on us. Amen!
Deuteronomy 18:15-22
A PROPHET LIKE MOSES
The Lord your God will raise up for you a prophet like me from among your own brothers. You must listen to him. Deuteronomy 18:15, NIV
As a prophet, Moses mirrored God's ultimate plan of deliverance and redemption of His people through Christ, when he was sent as a deliverer to bring Israel out of bondage. God spoke through Moses that He would raise, just like Moses, a prophet who would speak His mind, and the people must hear Him. Moses' words were messianic prophecy which speaks of the Prophet that was to bring permanent deliverance to Israel. To corroborate Moses' prophecy, after the healing of the crippled man at the Beautiful Gate, Apostle Peter told the crowd that the Prophet Moses talked about was Jesus Christ (Acts 3:22).
The Prophet has come and is still with us today. Moses lived and died, but Jesus Christ lived, died, resurrected, and is alive forever more. His words of prophecy have been recorded for you in the Scripture, and He also speaks to you day by day. Do you hearken to His voice? Do you yield to His instructions? When you face challenging life situations, whose words matter to you most, Jesus' words or others' voices? Listen quietly as He speaks to you today, and obey His words.
• Birthday Blessing: "Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not." Jeremiah 33:3
Read Bible Through Passage: Isaiah 5-8
The word of Jesus is the sword for the world.
